The Three Choices of Life

   by Tom Copeland

 

Use The Three Choices of Life as a tool to resolve conflicts with parents

  • Choice One: I am happy. I can live with the way things are going now

  • Choice Two: I am not happy. What will make me happy?  Tell parents that they must follow your rules or you will terminate them.

  • Choice Three: I quit. I am not happy and I can’t get parents to follow my rules

It is too stressful to try to terminate the parent so I am going out of business.

There are no other choices in life. It is not acceptable to complain about a problem with parents and yet be unwilling to do something about it. Providers should select a coach who will help them choose one of these three options.


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